The visitor doesn't talk about what happened five months ago when the problem first started to appear, but instead begins talking about what they think about when their attention is scattered.
This is a form of defense manifested as "change of topic."
This confirms to Nan Zhubin that something significant must have happened to the visitor five months ago.
Possibly a "disruption of sexual life event," or even a "traumatic event!"
However, seeing the visitor's state, Nan Zhubin did not fixate on this unknown event.
Being able to directly tackle the core is good, but unraveling it piece by piece also has its benefits.
Appropriately lengthening the consultation process can allow the visitor to gradually release emotions and gather strength during this course.
This is also one of the important roles of psychological consultation.
Nan Zhubin looked at the visitor who just removed his mask, observing the other's body posture.
The other person probably really needs such a process.
