From a young age, everything she wanted was brought to her without the need for her to even speak or take action, so she never experienced the taste of wanting but not getting.
Her first taste of defeat came from Bo Siyan. Despite being a girl, she was no less competent than the men in the military, felling one after another single-handedly, two at a time. At that time when Bo Siyan had just joined the military, he was a green newcomer, rumored to be a spoiled young master; she did not take him seriously, yet surprisingly, she was defeated by his move.
She lost face and constantly challenged him, repeatedly defeated until eventually she ended up as his defeated subordinate, even her heart was conquered.
She thought that by always being by his side, he would eventually see her, but he always treated her as a brother, a comrade in arms, never as a woman; later, he even prevented her from staying continually in Chicheng.
